Before he hooked up with wife Beyoncé, hip-hop impresario Jay-Z was famous for boasting on his hit "Girls, Girls, Girls," that he'd had "girls all over the world." And while you'd think that Jay's past might rub his significant other the wrong way, she tells OK! that's not the case.
"I don't really get jealous," Beyoncé explained to OK! at Thursday's Cinema Society screening of her new movie, Obsessed, in NYC. "I try my best to not be that way because I don't really think it's attractive."
But there's trying not to be that way, and then there's succeeding. So how does she manage to keep her envy in check?
"I think I'm pretty good," she told OK! at the party sponsored by Grey Goose vodka. "I think naturally I'm not a jealous person -- I don't think that way."
But if Beyoncé's not hung-up with her man's fidelity, what is she obsessed with? "What is my obsession in life? It's probably working on my legacy, my happiness."
" sometimes the person you want the most you are better off without"
Break ups can be tough, but other times you just smile and laugh at the situation and say
" really I was with YOUR ass?!"
Life is definitely full of surprises. You think you know someone but you really don't. Or maybe deep inside of you, you know how the person is but you don't want to admit it. "/
So yeah me and that guy broke up again. I think we are better off this way. Everyday I kept telling him how much I loved him and how *lucky I felt (ha ok) to have him in my life. He said the feeling was mutual but his actions said differently.... When you fall in love with someone you see past all their flaws; you want to believe shit will get better and the person will change their ways....
You can't make anyone change unless they realize they're wrong and they want to better themselves. I'm not saying I'm perfect but at least I knew what I wanted and I was serious about changing my ways to be happy with him
He asked why I was so insecure, hmm the past says it all. And no you shouldn't hold grudges on people but when they keep doing it? C'mon on now.....
Many females out there make their guy their everything and that's not a good look. You must put yourself FIRST before anything. Don't make him your "world" if he isn't in the same page as you...and even if he says u are. Actions speak louder than words......remember that
- ladies,also remember, we fall in love more than once. I look @ this way ....... You fall in love to gain experience for the next one. The guy your in love with right now may be teaching you things that no one else did. But that doesn't mean he's the "one". It may feel like it (trust me) but he may be making your a better person for the next one.... Its like you learn from your mistakes....
Also he might not be the "one" for you right now. If its meant to be he will come back and realize he fcked up. "You never know what u got 'till its gone". Now this is where a lot of us females fall in. We hope he will come back a changed man and say I'm sorry. Guess what? There's a 3% chance that will happen.... Maybe even less. So don't wait around and stress yourself. Be productive, keep your mind off it and try to be the way you were before you met him. I know its hard,especially if u were with this *fool for a while.
- don't let anyone make a fool out of you, you think he's talking to someone else or doing shit behind your back? Chances are HE IS. Its womans intuition that know these things.... TRUST me.
At the same time don't keep bringing shit up because that might push him to talk to another bitch but still that's no excuse for him... if he loves you like he says he does he'll put up with you.
" If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay "
Now my FAV subject... the "next bitch" aka "side bitch" aka the one who wants to be his friend and make him feel good when you guys get into an argument. Telling him he's "too good" for you and all that bitch talk shit. Fuckouttahea, you trying to be wifey but uh ur not going to be. Shit might be all "sweet & dandy". Guess what? If he did it to me he can defff do it to you. Get a fckin clue dumb whore. I swear some of these lame bitches need to be put in their place. If ur man doesn't want to let her go, he's picking you over her! If a man loves you he will be willing to let that snake go, cause come on now @ the end of the day YOU were there for him not HER. Coming out left field n shit smhhh. He'll learn. But chances are it will be too late....
Right now I left someone who thought shit was "okay" , I was always reaching out to him and being nothing but Wifey to him but he fucked up. Now I'm not going to get way into it but those that are close to me know the fckin deal (dead lmao)
Like Jae said " you are hot and you`ll find someone" pshh fck yea. I deserve someone who really appreciates me and sees things the way they're suppose to be and not make dumb ass excuses. Deep inside me I knew I needed someone better for me but I did not want to believe it.... I hope he finds God or something of the sort.....
I feel a lot better that I let everything out, but trust me I won't shed a tear. . . . not even worth it.
I will definitely take this advice and others and be a better person and hope for the best.
Don't ever settle for less ladies... there are PLENTY of other guys out there, you just have to find the right one... and its not the end of the world. Take it one day at a time and you'll be fine. I promise..
Just have to have a positive attitude. Which is what I have right now.
deleted out of my life and I will move on like you were nothing to me just like you treated me. I hope karma gets you, because I know it will, it always does baby ;]
I don`t know why I stuck around hoping shit would change, I gave you more than enough chances... If you can't see you fucked up I feel sorry for you.
Well this post is getting long and yeah I will close this chapter of my life and learn from this experience. Look back and ask "why did I put up with that..."
1st verse: Passing me by, Remember when i used to give you some time, (and oh i wasted it) I can't deny, you were important for a very small time (so insignificant)
And now you're talkin shit, Like i aint hearin it, Your boys be tryna holla, I know your feelin it, You say it's dead and gone, But you still play my songs, I hear you're gettin all emotional
Chorus: Because i'm on some bullshit Fuck what you heard I'm really on some bullshit Fuck what you heard You know i'm on some bullshit Fuck what you heard I'm really on some bullshit Fuck what you hea hea heard. [on some bullshit lyrics on http://www.kovideo.net/ ]
2nd verse: Had some goodtimes, I aint gon' lie but they were never at night, (what were u workin with) Let all that slide (slide) Cause after all i thought u were a nice guy, (really you were a bitch)
And now your talkin shit, Like i aint hearin it, Your boys be tryna holla, I know your feelin it, You say its dead and gone, But you still play my songs, I hear you're gettin all emotional.
Chorus
Rap: I'm on some new new brand new bullshit, got salaam sayin eho knew you could do this, you could catch me on the you tube with my cool click, i'm about to pick my girls ups in my new whip, so why you all up in my phone, poppin xxxx while i aint home, if you dont see me im gone, i'll be back tomorrow mo mo mo mo morn. Mo mo mo mo morn.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't 'be friends'. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think 'it will get better' You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships... There is nothing cute about baggage.... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.* Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil
You should know that:
You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.
They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your own hearts....
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare
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Before he hooked up with wife Beyoncé, hip-hop impresario Jay-Z was famous for boasting on his hit "Girls, Girls, Girls," that he'd had "girls all over the world." And while you'd think that Jay's past might rub his significant other the wrong way, she tells OK! that's not the case.
